Thursday, April 26, 2012

Endless Gratitude & Boundless Forgiveness


There are two acts that I believe can help bring everyone inner peace and happiness.  They do not need to be flashy, or subtle; they can be both if the situation warrants it.  Be thankful.  It’s easier to face difficulties when you are grateful for what you have and not concentrate on what you do not have.  You will always be drawn back to a humble state-of-being when you look at your life as a gift, and reflect on the positive influences in your life.  In times of struggle, I am reminded of the great friends I have in my corner.  They show me unconditional love by providing support, laughter and a shoulder to cry on.  I do the same for them, and have genuine happiness for their success.  Gratitude can start with a smile or a simple ‘thank you’, but when you want to feel it on a deeper level, reach out and tell a friend or family member how much they mean to you.  When you say it from the heart and unscripted, there is no better compliment and benefits each person equally.  Being thankful for the people in your life is only one aspect of endless gratitude.  It comes in many forms, and it starts with the recognition that your life path is where it is supposed to be today.  You made it through yesterday, and you have hope for tomorrow.  You are living, breathing and choosing to move forward.  

The act of forgiveness is equally as important as giving thanks.  When you harbor resentment or anger, it affects you more negatively than the person or situation you can’t forgive.  We all make mistakes; no one is perfect.  The process of letting go is to forgive with no restrictions or boundaries.  This opens your heart to more love, more patience, and more space to let in the good.  You can also forgive yourself for not knowing better in your past actions. As you learn from your mistakes, you can choose to not repeat them.  We are all a work in progress.  Love comes from within first in order to give it freely and without regret to others.
 
Books I’m thankful this week:

Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs by Chuck Klosterman:  This guy is fucking hilarious! Anyone who can compare a relationship to a Coldplay lyric or argue a race debate on being a Lakers vs Celtics fan is a genius in my eyes.  I want to write like him.  I want to read more of his stuff.  I never want to date him.
Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle:  Tolle is my new spiritual hero.  His views are simple, yet powerful and I intend for them to stay with me for a lifetime.  

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